You walk into a room and the dynamics start before a single word is spoken. Some people have reputation, access, or influence behind their name. Others are walking in quietly hoping someone gives them a chance. And no matter how confident you are, you can feel where you land in that unspoken hierarchy.

It’s not always intentional but someone speaks and people gather. Someone else speaks and the room doesn’t even pause. These events are supposed to be about connection, but too often they turn into subtle performances of status and proximity. People gravitate toward who they think is important. Others are ignored, interrupted or looked past while talking. That’s not you imagining things. That’s power.

Yes, it’s very intimidating, but it doesn’t mean you don’t belong. Just understand the room you are in, stop taking it personally and start moving through it more confidently and intentionally. You’d be surprised how much only confidence, without any influence, reputation or access, can shift how people respond to you. It doesn’t guarantee anything, but it changes how you show up and that often changes everything.